Narcissistic Personality Disorder NPD

Overview of Symptoms, Diagnosis and Prognosis of Clinical Narcissism

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NPD: When Self-Obsession is Mental Illness - Benczúr Gyula (1844-1920): Narcissus, pub dom
NPD: When Self-Obsession is Mental Illness - Benczúr Gyula (1844-1920): Narcissus, pub dom
Narcissistic traits are often a normal part of adolescence, but in some, these self-centered characteristics ultimately intensify and manifest as a destructive disorder.

What is Narcissistic Personality Disorder?

NPD is a type of psychological personality disorder characterized primarily by grandiosity, need for admiration, and lack of empathy. Narcissism occurs in a spectrum of severity, but the pathologically narcissistic tend to be extremely self-absorbed, intolerant of others’ perspectives, insensitive to others’ needs and indifferent to the effect of their own egocentric behavior.

It is not uncommon for persons with this disorder to frequently compare themselves to the accomplished, well-known and well-to-do. They feel entitled to great praise, attention, and deferential treatment by others. Those with NPD crave the limelight and are quick to abandon situations in which they are not the center of attention. Defects of empathy may cause narcissists to misperceive other people's speech and actions, causing them to believe that they are well-liked and respected despite a history of negative personal interactions.

Those with Narcissistic Personality Disorder are often ambitious and capable, but are unable cope with setbacks, disagreements or criticism. These emotional limitations, along with lack of empathy, make it difficult for such individuals to work well with others and to build a successful career (Kernberg 2003, 2004, APA 2000).

Diagnosis of Narcissistic PD

Considerable overlap between the characteristics of different personality disorders makes diagnosis of NPD a challenge. Grandiosity, lack of empathy and exploitative interpersonal relations are not unique to NPD, nor is the need to be seen as special or unique. The differential diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder is typically made based on the absence of certain behaviors. Borderline Personality Disorder has several conspicuous similarities, but unlike NPD, is characterized by self-injury, whereas narcissists are rarely physically self-injurious. The need for constant attention is also found in Histrionic Personality Disorder, but HPD and BPD are both relationship oriented, whereas NPD is characterized by the avoidance of intimacy. Psychopathy, or Antisocial Personality Disorder is differentiated from NPD by the psychopaths' willingness to use physical violence whereas narcissists rarely commit crimes Kernberg 2003, Vaknin 2007).

According to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-IV-TR), a patient must exhibit five or more of the following traits in order to be diagnosed with NPD:

  • grandiose sense of self-importance
  • preoccupation with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love
  • belief that he or she is "special" and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people (or institutions)
  • need for excessive admiration
  • sense of entitlement
  • takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends
  • lack of empathy
  • envious of others or believes that others are envious of him or her
  • arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes

Prevalence and Treatment of NPD

According to DSM IV, Narcissistic Personality Disorder occurs in less than 1% of the general population, and shows no difference in prevalence along any ethnic, social, cultural, economic, or professional lines, although the disorder is 50 to 75 percent more prevalent in men than in women.

It is unusual for narcissists to seek therapy, and those who do are generally reluctant to be truthful and open with mental health professionals. Unfortunately, individuals treated for NPD tend to progress very slowly, and rarely remain in treatment long enough for significant improvement to be made.

More Information on NPD

There are numerous on-line and in print resources with additional information on personality disorders, including: Psychology Prof Online, The Mayo Clinic: Mental Health Center and the article Personality Disorders: Brief Summary of the Ten Disorders of Personality.

This Suite 101 article is a summary of NPD. The contents of this article are not meant to be used for diagnosis and are not a substitute for professional help and counseling.

Additional Narcissism Resources

Dobbert, D. (2007) Understanding Personality Disorders: An Introduction. Greenwood Press.

Kernberg, Otto (2004) Aggressivity, Narcissism, and Self-Destructiveness in the Psychotherapeutic Relationship: New Developments in the Psychopathology and Psychotherapy of Severe Personality Disorders.

Kernberg, Otto and Akhtar, Salman. (2003) Broken Structures: Severe Personality Disorders and Their Treatment.

Vaknin, S (1999-2007). Malignant Self Love: Narcissism Revisited.

American Psychiatric Association APA (2000) Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-IV-TR).

Tami Port, MS, Tami Port

Tami Port - Tami Port is a college professor of cell and microbiology and creator of ScienceProfOnline.com, a free science education website.

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Jul 16, 2009 7:59 AM
Guest :
I've read elsewhere that there is another type of NPD: the withdrawn or restrained type. Characteristics are:

- pre-occupation with the opinion of others about him/herself
- overwhelming desire to prvenet criticism
- easily hurt and quickly shamed
- avoids situations where he/she may be vulnerable
- has little or no self-confidence

Would anyone like to comment?
Jul 21, 2009 2:18 PM
Guest :
Yes I believe if I remember correctly Sam Valkin gives an exhaustive
review of this type and their tendency to Marry other NPDS.
Dec 16, 2009 7:33 PM
Guest :
I have encountered someone who seems to show symptoms of both types of NPD (outwardly flamboyant and egotistical but inwardly withdrawn and insecure). One obvious NPD symptom is the unwillingness to seek help or even address the problem. So sad.
Feb 22, 2010 11:35 AM
Guest :
I'm a NPD afflictee, my pride stopped me from admitting something was wrong for a long time until after I had let it destroy my friendships. I am trying to find a psychologist
May 18, 2010 6:45 PM
Guest :
I would like to know if total control is another symptom of this disorder. I know somebody who I think has a narcissistic personality disorder who also just obtained custody of his children and I am fearful for their well being, any help would be greatly appreciated.
Jun 7, 2010 8:30 AM
Guest :
Can NPD occur with ADHD or similar?
I know someone of this type.Not that I am an expert.Now this individual boasts,convincingly but is aware that he is held in contempt by his peers,co-workers,family and friends.Is very close to family as well.Can't seem to function without them particularly with mother.But she is the one most at the recieving end and blame end.This person is on occasion self effacing.Says that he/she is unable to look in the mirror and prefers not to.Says he/she is ugly and fat.Says all this very matter of fact and effortlessly.No upset involved.Will say others are beautiful or whatever.Procrasinates.Cannot plan in advance.Work/life balance is appalling.Looses concentration and is late for work.Can't concentrate when there.Has sense of entitlement.Is jealous but puts up good front.Has no degrees but thinks PHD people are nothing .Will be corrected and then sulk.Forgets peoples birthdays and holidays,Mean with presents.Constantly pleads poverty,yet has earned good monies and nothing to show for it.Cheap,basic diet.Thoughts go through head at mile a minute.Are these people more prone to violence than most??

This person has no criminal record despite being 30.Only 1 speeding ticket.Does do verbal confrontation in controlled situations but will back down.Help if you can recognise any of this.Thanks
Aug 21, 2010 6:26 PM
Guest :
I have been seeing someone I highly suspect has NPD. It saddens me as there is an aspect about him (that I cannot pinpoint) that I cannot resist. Other than that aspect, I detest him and how he treats me. He constantly needs to work because he is "so important" to his job and "without him" the business could not function. I will not state his job position but I know that it is not of that much importance and that he seems to highly exaggerate it. He loves when I compliment him, and sadly he loves it even more when it is at the expense of my self esteem. He treats me awfully and then if I try to talk about it he turns the conversation around from what it is that he does that is hurting me to what things about him keep me from giving up. He has constantly implied I am needy yet it is only on his clock that we have one on one time. If he wants sex he has the charm of a prince but as soon as he is disinterested after a bit of cuddling he returns to his cold demeanor. He seems to blame other people on past problems (he blames all of his past failed relationships on the other person) and he seems to turn any conflict around as to be my fault. I am emotionally sucked dry but I love him and I don't know what to do as all searches for "dealing with npd" have been far from fruitful.

I know the best advice seems to be to leave him but there is that one spark of chemistry that keeps me loving him and wanting to fix us. But to fix us means to fix him and he is unfixable :(
Sep 26, 2010 9:22 AM
Guest :
Sounds like my ex husband.
Nov 29, 2010 5:24 PM
Guest :
Sounds exactly like my current significant other. I have been with him for over 10-years and have only now discovered the source of all my frustration in the relationship...he is a Narcissist, and I KNOW he will never admit any short-comings or get help or work to make positive change. It is hopeless and I see that now. While I know we all have failings and must practice tolerance and forgiveness, I cannot go on with someone who makes NO effort in supporting our emotional life. I love the good things about him, but I am very unhappy with the bad and the relationship is, therefore, doomed.
Jan 13, 2011 6:41 AM
Guest :
I wanted to comment to the women who are in a relationship with a Narcissist. I met a guy when I was 25 (I'm 31 now) that I fell in love with that shows every trait of Narcissism. I hated him but on the other hand I loved him more then anything else in the world and I couldn't let him go. I spent just about everyday crying because it hurt to think that the person I loved could be so self absorbed and so insensitive to my thoughts and feelings. For example if one of my kids got me sick and I was in bed and he was hungry he would say, go make me something to eat. I would tell him that I didn't feel good and he would say "So what, it ain't my fault your sick, I didn't do it to you". That hurt so bad. I would get up, no matter how sick I was and make him something to eat hoping he would see that I didn't feel good and maybe think twice about the way he was acting, but he never did. I have 3 kids that aren't his and when I would spend any time with them he would get mad and jealous. For a while I was pushing my kids away because it upset him for me to be with them and I didn't want to be yelled at or called names. I opened my eyes one day and said- what am I doing? He is not more important then my kids and definitely not more important me. I told him to take everything out of my house that belonged to him and get out. I left him for about a month but we would talk daily. I realized that when he didn't have control of my emotions and I was able to talk to him about the way I felt without him turning it around on me and making it my fault (because if he did I would hang up on him), I was able to get through to him. When he lost control of me by me leaving him he became like putty in my hands. It's been 2 years since I have let him back (when I felt like he was worthy of being with me) and he is totally changed. He cooks for me now while I sit and watch tv!!! When I don't feel good he takes care of me. I showed him his behavior was unacceptable and he would have to drastically change before he could ever be with me again. Every once in a while he will start acting up and I will say- I think you need to go for a walk or just go outside for a few minutes. He will automatically say- nope I'm okay, sorry. He turns it around real quick. What I am trying to say is they can change if they have someone willing to help them understand. Unfortunately it takes leaving them for a period of time but in my experience it paid off. You have to show them that you will not allow them to act like that or treat you like less of a person because they think they are the most important person in that relationship. You have to take control and not accept it. Make it known that you want to be with them but you don't need to be with them. In a way you have to take them off the pedistil that they have put themselves on (without being mean) and show them that you should be there. Just be stronger then them and the outcome will be great. Believe it or not they need you alot more then you think. Alot of the time they can't feel good about themselves without putting you down so if you leave they feel like they are a NOTHING. If anyone would like to talk because I know how hard it is you can email me at anytime at onlyoneofme79@yahoo.com I would be more then happy to help you deal with your Narcissist because I have completely changed mine and believe me he was REALLY bad. Good luck to everyone and remember you deserve to be happy!!!
Sep 20, 2011 9:25 AM
Guest :
I know of an NPD person, who has an extramarital affair with his aunt. Can this be corrected and will their marriage ever work? THe couple is now separated.
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